So if you’ve been wild bored and scavenging the interwebs for any form of entertainment I’m sure you’ve come across tweets and posts about dating. Especially on Twitter you’ll find hella solutions on what to do if you’ve been accidentally dating all the wrong people. One of the most popular solutions ? Date someone fat or date someone ugly.
Now it’s a whole helluva lot wrong with the fact that that’s what people think you should do after you’ve been ran through but we’ll save that conversation for another moon. Let’s just talk about dating ugly people for a hot minute.
Fun fact: By the numbers more attractive men actually do cheat 38% more often than their unattractive counterparts. When I learned that I was kinda like…. Oh….okay. That’s actually really good to know. The crazy thing is though, that when you date someone you don’t initially find physically attractive, their personality can literally make them more like Johnny Depp or Michael B. Jordan or Kehlani (I tried to be inclusive but I’m over the names now).
Check out this one woman’s experience. “Fairytales and Dove commercials have told us again and again that inner beauty is more important than outer beauty, but what does that actually mean?
From my experience, someone’s inner beauty is his or her essence. It’s how they carry themselves in the world. It’s their warmth, their generosity, and — most importantly — how they make you feel when you’re around them. When I was 15, a hobbit-like guy named John pursued me hardcore at summer camp. Initially, I was put off by his appearance. But as I got to know him more, I began to genuinely like him. He was kind. He had a great sense of humor. And suddenly there it was: I was helplessly attracted to him.
The less conventionally attractive a guy is, the more likely he is to develop other areas and aspects of his personality because he can’t rely solely on his #blessed looks. That’s why the average-looking dude at the bar is probably more intelligent, self-confident, and funny than the hunk sitting beside him. Looks fade, but the essence of who a person is stays intact.”
Sooooo, have you dated someone “ugly” or just someone that wasn’t your type because you were tired of the same old thing ? Let us know your experience !